where are you fromQuick Link: The Dreaded Question: Where Are You From?

Today I’m writing at A Life Overseas about one of the hardest questions to answer for expats and especially for Third Culture Kids.

More and more I hear people asking my children where they are from. For now, for Lucy, the answer seems obvious. She was born in Djibouti, she has spent her whole life except first grade there. She is eight years old and sees things in black and white. But already she is picking up on nuances that counter her assumption. Like that people in Djibouti, Kenya, and the US greet us by saying, “Welcome home.”

For our teenagers the answer is also complicated and they are becoming more aware of the complications. Their responses to the question vary.

My parents live in Djibouti, where I still have a bed and friends and where I lived for 10 years. But I also lived in Somaliland. But now I go to school in Kenya. I also went to school in France for a while. But I was born in Minnesota…

Click here to read about our conversation on how to answer this question and to find out how I jet-laggedly responded to on inquiry about where I am from (after traveling for over 40 hours, through three continents): The Dreaded Question: Where Are You From?